How I Cut Cable

I think most guys in our demo watched a lot of television growing up. I still grew up mostly without the internet and I certainly grew up in an age without Wi-Fi in every house. My viewing began with Tom & Jerry, moved to Garfield and transformed into The Mighty Morphin Power Rangers. Or was that just me? But in all seriousness, we are all spending more and more time online in the second decade of the 21st Century, which has been argued this led to the declining television viewership numbers.

Still, most people in their mid-twenties purchase some kind of a package from their internet provider for cable or satellite service. I remember back when I was growing up we got phone service from one company and cable service from a separate company. With deregulation of the telecommunication industries came this phenomenon of purchasing products as packaged goods without thinking about them individually. It is both a good and bad situation for the consumer.

Take this for example: A friend of mine and his wife bought a house and got a package of three: phone, internet, and cable. They didn’t really want the phone line, but it was part of the package (and free for the first year). Another friend recently posted on Facebook that he and his wife had finally disconnected their land line.

Ever since I moved out of the house and went to college, I have never had a “home phone number.” But I have always had a cell phone bill and a cable bill. When I moved to the big city I decided to review my budget and if I really needed cable and here is how I came to my decision to cut the cord.

1. How much television do I actually watch?

Compared to when I was growing up in junior high, I would estimate that my television viewing was somewhere around 3-4 hours per night; adding up to nearly 20 hours or more per week. Rewind to just two years ago and I was probably at, including time when I had the television on but was working, I would average it out to two hours per night. That is still a pretty high 14 hours per week. As this season of programming comes to an end, I know that my shows only take up 3.5 hours per week! I may still turn on the television during dinner or while I’m napping, but my viewership has gone down considerably.

2. Is the amount right for my goals?

Had you asked me ten years ago to get done what I am doing now and keep my viewer hours at 20 per week, it would have been impossible. But with my hours down to a much more reasonable 3.5 hours per week – less is needed – I can say that my time is being well spent now.

3. How much will I have to alter my entertainment?

The decision to get rid of cable at home has forced me to change my habits. I have had to give up the programs that I loved on TBS – mostly re-runs – but also Conan. I also miss A&E re-runs. We do get a few stations, but not CBS or NBC which means programs that I might have watched on those stations have to be watched on Hulu. (Hulu by the way has made all this possible.)

4. What does this save me?

This is an interesting question because I can answer this in a number of ways. First let’s talk strictly dollars. I just moved from Kansas City and had I done this while living there, I would have saved nearly $40 per month. (That adds up to $480 per year!) Now that I live in New York City and only pay for internet service, the money saved per month has gone up to $70 or $840 per year. Think about that, I am saving $2.30 a day by just cutting out cable!

The second way to look at this question is time. By reducing my viewing by as little as 10 hours on the low end and 17 hours on the high end, I have given myself much more time to read and create.

And guess what? I’m surviving. With Hulu and understanding that I can work around most of the issues of not having cable, it has definitely been the right choice for me.

*This article was originally posted on Primer.

Officially a Gleek

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*Beginning in 2010, I started writing a bi-weekly column, “From Richard’s Oft Cluttered Desk” which appears every other Wednesday.

I’m sure I’ll regret this post someday in my future. But it has happened. I’m a Gleek. Urban Dictionary defines a ‘Gleek‘: To LOVE the show Glee [...].

It has happened over the course of a few months but over the last two weeks, it happened. The music has been outstanding and the story-lines have gotten better since I began catching the show earlier this season.

Now, don’t get me wrong. There are definitely times when the show leaves something to be desired with the writing.

But lately the writing has been spot on. The show is tackling issues around bullying and while it is a hot-topic for those in education right now, it is important. In fact, the writing is coming at it from different angles. First from both the bullied and the bully points-of-view. And then last week we started to see how friends were impacted by the school bullying. And finally, we started to see the inner-workings of the principal’s difficulty in dealing with bullying.

Here is why I will probably regret this post: Glee is kinda … how do I put it … out there? It is very niche and not many people outside of it will watch it. I started watching for the music and now I’m actually invested.

But it could be worse. I could be a fan of Two and a Half Men. If you’re a fan, I’m sorry if this offends you, but the show is all about a guy who has been drinking and having sex with a new woman every night around his nephew. Great family values.

Or I could be a fan of Dancing With The Stars or some other reality television show that while entertaining, is cheaply made. And get this, if you haven’t seen the previews, next up is Skating With The Stars. I’m all for entertainment. But please, for the love of Hollywood, make something worthwhile. Challenge me. Challenge the world. Make me think. Make me question. Make us talk. Right now, Glee is where it is at.

Watching Me

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*Beginning in 2010, I started writing a bi-weekly column, “From Richard’s Oft Cluttered Desk” which appears every other Wednesday.

Recently I re-watched the final two hours of the series 24. There was no real reason behind my viewing, just that I wanted to relive and re-enjoy the end of the historic series.

I began watching the series on a week-to-week basic at the start of season four and for five years, I watched as 24-hour time blocks came and went. The United States and the world were under attack and Jack Bauer was always a hero.

What was special about the show was not only the creativity the writers always had to have to tell virtually the same story eight times, but the fact that they stayed true to their concept, but never feared taking on tough issues of legality, Constitutionality and emotion.

You wouldn’t think a show built around terrorism and violence would have tears at the end, but it did.

I’ll never forget the day Edgar was killed off the show. I was shocked; numb almost. He was lovable and kind and the kind of guy we all believed we could be. That’s what funny about entertainment. No matter if it is a sit-com or if it’s a drama, a movie or a book. These mediums are built to entertain and make us leave our lives and enter into a new world – even if only for a time.

But it’s also what makes it so hard. When I watch or read, I need to feel like the character is someone I could be … I think we could all agree … I’m pretty special.

But 24 was always a battle Bauer just wanted to live his life, but he kept getting pulled back into the fight. He said no. He’d fight it every year, but he knew he was the best man for the job. He was the hero. But he was also a friend. If you were on this side, he always had your back.

I know I strive for that with everyone in my life. 24 says a lot about me. I’m willing to fight if needed. But I also want my life. I will fight for others and I want others to fight for me.

But what Bauer and the 24 team did was create a world where there was terror but heroism. There was violence but also a peace. Not just world peace, but internal peace. Isn’t that what we all work for? And in the end, I guess that’s why I watched it again.

My Sitcom Pilot

Years ago two friends (Evan and Eric) and I wrote a situation comedy together. It was just something fun for us college friends to do over the summer. I spent a lot of time that summer shopping for an agent for us as well as doing the lion’s share of the writing, as I was the “writer” of the group and the other two were the “comedians” coming up with the material. About a year later, I found a contest being run by some television network to write a sitcom that would go into a contest. I decided to write and enter something. That was years ago. I thought for sure I had lost it.

Everybody Loves Raymond

But in cleaning out some files a few weeks ago, I found the only hard copy that remained! I was thrilled to find it and flip through the pages. It is titled, “In This House.”

The summary reads in part: “Sheryl and David West have three children and their oldest, Katie has just had her first baby, Sarah, with her husband Carter Walker. They live int he garage apartment. Her brothers are Eric and Jay and they are very different people. Life offers challenges and there is nothing this family won’t face – and face with a little humor, a little emotion, and best of all, a little heart. Each person has friends and talents, but in the end it’s the family that makes life interesting and complicated.”

The writing itself wasn’t bad and was, surprisingly to me, even a bit funny. But finding this project is significant for a different reason. It shows that we can really do anything. Of course, I didn’t win the contest, but I, Richard Dedor, took the initiative, took the challenge, and wrote a pilot for a sitcom! Have you done that?

More importantly, what have you been telling yourself “no” to? It’s time to get going, on whatever it is. Anything is Possible!

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