FOCUS: You Can!

Selected Life Lesson
“Can’t” never did anything.
-Peggy S’ Life Lesson from Des Moines, Iowa

Richard’s Thoughts…
Peggy’s Life Lesson is most certainly true! The word can’t limits your thoughts on what is possible. Looking through which lesson to send out this week was easy because this one stuck out at me. About a week ago I saw a poster that simply said: Impossible spells out I’m Possible!

Even after writing Anything is Possible, I had never seen that before. But it is true. While the word can’t doesn’t have that special characteristic, it is limiting. Can, will, do and possible are limitless. You say it, you dream it, you can do it.

And the end of the year and the birth of another is a great time to start thinking about what you can do. I’m currently doing that for 2012 and beyond and I will say this: I am beyond excited.

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Living Debt Free

On the evening of November 16, 2011, I submitted my final payment to the U.S. Government for my student loans I incurred over my three and a half years of college. When this year began, I knew if I didn’t miss a payment that November would be the month.

And here I am. I have done it.


I graduated in December 2005 from the University of Northern Iowa and here I am, less than six years later, paid in full. It wasn’t easy. in that time I have had three jobs, been unemployed, bought a car, moved four times and had to shop for health insurance.

But I did it. Here’s how.

I started small. What does that mean? It means I went to a community college first. North Iowa Area Community College to be exact. It was a small place where I was given such great attention by my teachers, I learned a lot more than ever possible. My history classes was lecture, coupled with conversation. I went to this school for a few reasons. It was close to home. But mostly, it was a cost thing.

I explored what I wanted to do. Had I been forced as a freshman to declare a major, I would have hurt myself going to a big university and probably been forced to add on three whole semesters of classes. But I didn’t. I started with the idea of political communication, but changed to public relations and now I have a day-job that did not even exist in 2002 when I began college.

And finally, I saved my ass off while in high school (and even in college) so I wouldn’t have to borrow against my future. I must also say that my parents did help, but I didn’t see a dime of the green. They took out loans to pay for half of my schooling. Just half and I covered the rest through scholarships and my own loans. I am really quite thankful for them for that as now I am able to invest in my future in a new way and I can’t wait.

If you’re a fan of Penelope Trunk you know how she feels about education, and I will not argue with her because on the whole, I think she is right. We need to completely re-think our education system. How we teach at all ages. But more importantly, what value does college have?

My college experience taught me more about life, than it did work. I wish I could say different. I know what needs to happen in education so I am currently working hard on ideas to do just that.

But until then, I am now free to go to my own school and learn my own lessons. Yup, I will fail. And I do hope to get a gold star every once-in-awhile. But in the end, I know I will be learning. And that is deserving of something.

Time To Go After 26.2

What a sight: Standing on Fifth Avenue in Manhattan last week with the sun brightening the pristine blue sky and lighting the path for the 47,000+ runners below. The day was what the word perfect was created for and what the word embodies. Around 1:00p.m., my friends’ family and friends arrived and a quick chat ensued. You see, I was there to support my friend Patrick (@PatrickCourtney), a guy I met when I was only five and had just moved to Iowa.

My childhood friend, Patrick, with his ING NYC Marathon Medal.

It is quite the story that 20 years later, we both would end up in New York City. But life has a way of always working out and this race was another reason I believe in life and all it’s wonders.

So, there we stood on Fifth Avenue as his wife watched her iPhone track Patrick’s progress towards. First it was 10 blocks away. Then two. Then we saw him. And he had a smile on his face.

It surprised me, but then as I thought about it as he ran away, perhaps he had the smile on his face because he saw his bride jumping up and down as he approached. Or perhaps it was his family and friends cheering him on and a neon orange sign with orange glitter showing their support. Or maybe it was simply that he was at mile 22, with 4.2 to go. Whatever it was, there he was, smiling.

I’m so proud of him and what he has accomplished and it inspires me as my own journey begins. My date with destiny is June 3, 2012, San Diego.

Time will tell – 200 days to be exact – whether or not I am smiling as I reach mile 22, but as I’m running on that day, I know I will think back to this day in November, when I watched 47,000 people accomplish the impossible.

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