FOCUS: Learn to Say No!

Selected Life Lesson
Don’t over commit yourself. Learn to say no.
-Lauren K’s Life Lesson from Lawrence, Kansas

Richard’s Thoughts…
All of us, at one time or another, has said “yes” when a “no” would have been a much smarter answer. But it is hard when someone comes to us and asks for help to say no. It is especially hard when it is a friend asking you for that help.

If you know just a few things about me, one of them probably is that I love to be involved and I love to help. But saying “no” is not a pronouncement on the importance of the work or the request, it is just a result of an already-busy life. And it is okay for you to say no.

Having the ability and being willing to control your own time is a very powerful thing. When you do, you give yourself the ability (and the right) to control more of your day and give all your energy to the few things you do say yes to. Think about your life right now, what do you want to say yes to and what do you want to say no to? It’s your life and you get to control it!

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FOCUS: Show Respect to your Moms! (v3n50)

Selected Life Lesson
Never ever mouth off to your moma. It’s a sign of disrespect.
-Leslie L’s Life Lesson from Olathe, Kansas

Richard’s Thoughts…
To all the mothers out there: Happy (early) Mother’s Day!

Mothers are very special people. First, they give birth to us. They fed us. They bought us clothes. And when we didn’t want to eat all our vegetables, but dad was making us, she helped sneak them away. (Thanks mom!)

Of course mothers (and fathers) make mistakes, but they are still your parents. You made mistakes too. Make sure you do something special for your mother, or someone special in your life this week … it’s just a sign of respect.

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FOCUS: Impressions! (v3n37)

Selected Life Lesson
You don’t always know what others are going through. Be compassionate.
-Misty’s Life Lesson from Columbus, Ohio

Richard’s Thoughts…
Unless it is a family member, your significant other or your best friend, reading people is not an exact science. And I don’t know about you, but I can be really good at hiding my true emotions. It was always my way of coping and protecting myself and that is why Misty’s lesson hits home for me.

With each interaction we make, we leave an impression. But “impressions” are not idle things; just look at the word. Impressions are by definition: “A mark produced on a surface by pressure.” That is the impact of our interactions, impressions we leave on people each and every day.

What kind are you leaving? Could they turn into sores, bruises and welts? Or do you approach each and every interaction with a positive and compassionate attitude? Think it about it and try to put a positive impression on every interaction tomorrow.

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One Step At a Time

Slowly – but certainly – we are changing the world. 2010 marked the second year of my One Stream campaign. I launched it in September based around the idea that we can make a difference in this world with little and simple actions.

This year, I put out a challenge: I would match up to $100 of donations to my Kiva team. We didn’t reach $100, but we made it halfway.

Therefore, I put my money where my mouth is and matched those two donations. I have helped fund two loans.

Dossou Zanou from Adidogomé, Togo
, requested a loan of $1,200 (I funded $25 of it) for home product sales.

Douglas Centeno Rosales from Puntarenas, Costa Rica, requested a loan of $1,050) (again, I funded $25 of it) also for home product sales.

I didn’t choose Zanou’s loan for any specific reason, but I did specifically choose Rosales’. I recently read an article about how valuable loans like the ones Kiva supports are to the populations where the loans are sent.

I really do, from the bottom of my heart, want to thank to two individuals who took on the challenge. I hope you keep giving through Kiva, or some other organization. Know that you are making a difference, one life, and one action at a time.

(flickr photo via innoxiuss)

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